Skillfull. . .
The Buddha taught “Right Speech” as speaking what is truthful, kind, and beneficial. In the age of instant messages, tweets, and comment sections, this teaching is more vital than ever. The ease of communication can lead to impulsive words that harm relationships or spread misinformation.
Skillful speech invites us to pause. Before posting or replying, ask:
- Is it true?
- Is it kind?
- Is it necessary?
- Is it the right time?
Even one or two “yes” answers can prevent regret later.
Practicing skillful speech also means listening deeply. We often think communication is about what we say, but mindful listening builds trust and understanding. Giving someone your full attention is a profound act of respect.
You can apply skillful speech at work by giving feedback gently and clearly. Online, it might mean avoiding gossip, checking sources before sharing, or stepping away from heated debates.
This practice has practical benefits: fewer conflicts, stronger reputations, and more authentic connections. It also strengthens self-awareness, because you’re attuned to the intentions behind your words.
In a noisy, reactive digital world, skillful speech is revolutionary. It transforms communication from a minefield into a mindful field — one where words heal rather than harm.
Peace and Love, Jim
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